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Autistic people frequently encounter dismissal in medical settings.
"I was diagnosed with BPD, bipolar, anxiety, depression, OCD. Turns out it was autism the whole time." — Late-diagnosed autistic adult
The Diagnosis Collection
Before autism is recognized, many accumulate other diagnoses. Each symptom gets labeled separately. The unifying explanation—autism—isn't considered.
"You Don't Look Autistic"
What they see: Eye contact (learned), speaking clearly (rehearsed), appearing calm (masking).
What they miss: Exhaustion after, script preparation before.
Symptoms Dismissed as Anxiety
"Standard CBT asking 'what's the worst that could happen?' fails because the worst DOES happen." — Autistic adult
Medical Sensory Challenges
Healthcare settings are sensory nightmares: fluorescent lights, chemical smells, long waits, being touched by strangers.
Strategies
Before: Write down symptoms/questions, bring support person.
During: Use written notes, ask for written instructions.
If dismissed: Document concerns, seek second opinions, find autism-affirming providers.
Physical Health Connections
Autistic people have higher rates of: EDS/Hypermobility, GI issues, chronic migraines.
Finding autism-informed healthcare is worth the search.