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Autism Myths and Facts

"People think they know what autism is because they saw Rain Man once. They have no idea." — Autistic adult

The Most Harmful Myths

Vaccines Cause Autism

FACT: Thoroughly debunked. The original study was retracted for fraud. Multiple studies with millions of children found no connection.

Bad Parenting Causes Autism

FACT: Parenting does not cause autism. The "refrigerator mother" theory from the 1940s has been completely debunked.

Autism Can Be Cured

FACT: Autism is not a disease. It's a neurodevelopmental difference. Support and accommodations help. Many autistic people don't want to be "cured."

Myths About Autistic People

Autistic People Lack Empathy

FACT: Many have intense empathy, sometimes overwhelmingly so. Expression may be different, not absent.

All Are Intellectual Disabled / All Are Savants

FACT: Both extremes are wrong. Intelligence varies widely. Savant abilities are rare. Strengths come in many forms.

Autistic People Don't Want Friends

FACT: Many deeply desire connection. Social interaction can be exhausting, but that doesn't mean unwanted.

Myths About Who Gets Autism

Only Boys Are Autistic

FACT: Autism affects all genders. Girls and women are underdiagnosed because they often present differently.

Autism Only Affects Children

FACT: Autism is lifelong. Autistic children become autistic adults. Late diagnosis is increasingly common.

Myths About Presentation

"You Don't Look Autistic"

FACT: There is no autistic "look." Presentation varies enormously. Masking hides visible signs.

"High-Functioning" Means Not Struggling

FACT: These labels oversimplify. Someone may excel academically but struggle socially.

Most autism myths stem from limited understanding. When in doubt, listen to autistic people.

Created with care for the neurodivergent community