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Healing & Thriving
Let's be clear: you are not the one who needs to be fixed.
The healing we're talking about isn't becoming less autistic. It's recovering from living in a world that doesn't accommodate your neurology.
"Healing wasn't about changing who I am. It was about mourning who I pretended to be and finally meeting myself." — Late-diagnosed autistic adult
What Healing Actually Means
Healing IS: Recovering from burnout. Processing years of masking. Unlearning shame. Building a life that fits YOUR brain.
Healing is NOT: Becoming "less autistic." Getting better at masking. "Acting normal."
The goal isn't to function in a neurotypical way. The goal is to function in YOUR way—sustainably.
Key Topics
| Topic | More Info |
|---|---|
| Stimming | Stimming |
| Meltdowns & Shutdowns | Meltdowns |
| Masking & Burnout | Burnout |
| Coping & Energy | Coping |
The Role of Environment
Sometimes the most powerful healing comes from changing your environment, not yourself.
You can't self-care your way out of a toxic environment.
You don't have to earn rest. You don't have to justify your needs. You don't have to mask to be acceptable.